The interpretation of
love and the truth differs depending on who you ask.
The only reason why
they won’t stay together is when they weren’t meant to be, but in that case,
there’s another end game waiting.
The
Interpretation of Love and the Truth follows some of those ideas, and the
question, what is love in the first place? Can it mean different things to
different people, and where’s the common denominator? It also brings in another
important aspect: Timing.
In the aftermath of
this experience, Chelsea decides that she won’t give too much importance to flying sparks, when
she can have something that seems a lot less dangerous: A relationship that’s
warm and reliable, without the danger to get hurt. A little boring maybe, but
it’s safe—and maybe safe is the best you can hope for. She is planning her
wedding with her girlfriend Gail when Tonya comes back to town, chastised,
changed—has she really?—and determined to make up for the lost time and past
mistakes.
I follow
discussions about romance novels and requirements for the characters’
relationship--especially in lesbian fiction--with interest. I often hear they fall in love too quickly (I’m
guilty, sometimes, no apologies), and that one aspect or another is
unrealistic.
When you look at the
lives of real people, how they meet and fall in love, there’s hardly anything
that’s too far-fetched. I bet you my own story would sound unrealistic to you,
and it would have to me, had someone told me in younger years. As a
psychologist, I heard many stories that confirmed what I believe about love and
the possibilities—that you can find The One, and no other relationship can
compare. It’s somebody’s life experience—that makes it true.
There are many ways to
tell a love story, and there’s something for everyone out there. Just like in
real life.
Besides, our stories
have been hardly visible for so long—I believe we deserve all the happy endings
we can get, and then some.
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